Make each day a ‘Comfortable Headband’ day — That’s Not My Age


Simone Rocha hairband at Net-A-Porter


The most effective issues about getting older is you possibly can put on what you want, how you want, once you like. You possibly can put on stuff you’ve by no means worn earlier than, experiment with sudden combos, break some guidelines and invent you personal.

A number of weeks in the past, I began carrying one thing I by no means have earlier than, a hairband with an enormous spotty bow on the aspect picked up in a thrift retailer for just a few quid. Does it swimsuit me? I believe so. I’ve not had anybody level, snigger or chuckle out loud. Nobody’s accused me of trying like Bubbles Rothermere or Bette Davies in Whatever Happened to Baby Jane. It was like my private ‘purple hat’ epiphany. Effectively, why not?

I’m constructing as much as carrying my Frida Kahlo flowered headband this summer time, one thing I picked up within the V&A present store through the Frida Kahlo; Making Herself Up exhibition, in 2018. She used to love carrying flowers in her hair: dahlias, bougainvillea and gardenias to accent her Tehuana coiffure and costume and, honour her Mexican heritage. For the final 5 years, that scarlet petalled headband has lain within the drawer ready for its popping out parade. There was by no means the proper second or event. I used to be by no means in the proper temper. However that second could also be now.


Frida Kahlo Making Herself Up official exhibition ebook from the V&A


Ornamental hair bands are again on the type agenda. At the latest Met Gala in New York, numerous celebrities had been noticed carrying them notably Serena Williams rocking a multi-strand pearl headband. They’re a preferred accent with the Hollywood set: Juliette Lewis, Kiera Knightly and Kirsten Dunst, to call just a few.

Once I say headbands, I’m not speaking in regards to the dreary, limp varieties so beloved of Sloanes within the Eighties. Right this moment, the ornamental hair equipment in style on websites like Etsy supply pizazz and character. They embody ornate knots or Halo Crowns that from the entrance resemble turbans (à la Joan Collins) to bedazzled and bejewelled ones; headbands produced from classic kimono materials and twirls of ribbons or tulle caught mid-ripple.



There’s one thing particularly in regards to the ageing girl and  ‘head dressing’ that works a deal with. Miriam Margolyes, 82 appeared stunning on the duvet of this month’s British Vogue carrying a forties-inspired Sinamay headband. An older head has the boldness to hold off some critical assertion dressing as demonstrated so elegantly by ‘ our naughtiest nationwide treasure’.

Whereas ladies of all ages are solely too comfortable to don a fascinator and flirt with a feather for a household wedding ceremony, our heads are normally forgotten on on a regular basis responsibility. Maybe, with its more and more wrinkly pores and skin, greying or thinning hair, the top and face are essentially the most seen reminder we’re ageing, one thing many would like to neglect?

However that is precisely why it really works so effectively. A press release headband (or head dressing of any variety) frames and spotlights the knowledge, life and character that make up an older face. Headbands are an adjunct that may deliver color, sample and ornamentation to the face, enriching the collagen-diminished complexion. Placing certainly one of these on is a refusal to develop into invisible, like an indication that claims ‘I’m nonetheless right here and going sturdy’.

I can consider many trendy and legendary ladies who’ve understood the significance of dressing their heads, of their autumn years: Edith Sitwell, Billy Vacation, Simone de Beauvoir, Coco Chanel, Carmen Miranda. An older girl can stand proud and maintain her head held excessive: she has the expertise, authority and confidence to drag off some cool and regal head dressing. Why save this intelligent type trick for particular events? It’s a easy option to make each day of excellent well being and gratitude, certainly one of celebration.


Headband by Silk & Lawn



Nilgin Yusuf is a contract author and common TNMA contributor.


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