8 ideas for (re)discovering your private fashion following mastectomy — That’s Not My Age


Liz carrying Rixo


Common readers (and listeners) may keep in mind Dr Liz O’Riordan. The advisor breast surgeon’s world turned upside-down in 2015 when, aged 40, she was identified with breast most cancers. She joined me on the podcast final 12 months to speak about her expertise; from prognosis, to remedy and restoration. While chatting we spoke briefly concerning the influence that having a mastectomy has had on how she feels about her physique (Liz doesn’t have a left breast and doesn’t put on a prosthetic) and the way she’s needed to adapt her private fashion to offset the lack of a breast. On the time I made a be aware to come back again to this as there appears to be little or no private and sensible recommendation on the market in regards to the challenges of dressing post-mastectomy.

‘It may be very exhausting coming to phrases with a brand new physique form and picture after a mastectomy,’ she tells me.  ‘It’s not simply the the lacking breast(s) that may have an effect on what you put on. For some ladies, breasts disguise a tummy beneath, their absence could make it appear a bigger. Except you’re very slim, there may also be a noticeable bulge on the facet the place the breast used to merge into the gentle tissue beneath your armpit. These can create odd shapes underneath garments if a prosthesis isn’t worn. To start with I might cry as I walked round department shops with my shoulders hunched over, desperately searching for one thing which may disguise my uni-boob. I needed to cover in large saggy jumpers that usually exacerbated the asymmetry. Ultimately, I realised that no-one is actually me. I needed to study to like my physique once more and to put on what made really feel good as a substitute of worrying what different individuals thought. Time is a good healer. Now, I put on what I need.’


Credit score: Liz Twitter @Liz_ORiordan


Right here Liz O’Riordan shares eight ideas and concepts for post-mastectomy dressing:

Relating to mastectomy bras, they should be full cupped to carry a prosthesis flat in opposition to the chest wall. Which means plunging necklines and something low-cut will present the bra beneath (I struggled with this as a variety of my pre-cancer clothes had V-necks). Another is to put on a modesty panel or cleavage cowl that clips on to a bra.

I discovered hot-weather dressing actually exhausting. Many mastectomy bras have broad straps – flimsy, lacy issues received’t maintain the load of a prosthesis – which implies that the bra will present underneath strappy clothes. As an alternative I put on gentle vest tops beneath – in black, navy or white. Ones that comprise a variety of Lycra don’t trip up and create wrinkles as I am going about my day. Additionally helpful are these old-fashioned dress slips (like granny used to put on) that I discovered at good ol’ M&S.

Carrying a scarf, scarf or bolero over a strappy gown will disguise the bra, but this provides one other layer of clothes that will not be perfect when the recent flushes come (attributable to hormonal modifications) – or if the climate is especially sizzling and humid. Experiment with what works for you since layers are good for each (physique)type and performance.

When you select to go with no bra or a prosthesis, this presents completely different challenges. As a small-breasted girl, I’m fortunate that I can go bra-less, however I might suggest nipple covers (material and silicone). There are not any one-sided bras that I do know of to assist single breasts sans prosthesis. Though it may be expensive, firms like Buttress & Snatch could make a customized bra for you.

Re-addressing the (dis)proportion situation… Tops with a fussy neckline can distract the attention: straps that tie in a bow or hold down, ruching, gathering or piping alongside a centre row of buttons. My dream high for hiding asymmetry has ruffles or flounces (sadly, each time I’ve discovered one I favored, the ruffle was on the fallacious facet – designers take be aware!). When you don’t put on a prosthesis, keep away from wrap necklines as they gape terribly on the flat facet. I’ve moved in direction of floaty, breathable materials (sizzling flushes once more) and experimented with bolder colors and patterns for extra smoke’n’mirrors distraction. Free and drapey layers are additionally good.

There are days when I’ve cleavage envy, particularly at events when everybody glams up and I battle to really feel horny. It’s a lot more durable to search out event put on now. Tailor-made clothes like fitted clothes and jackets – or something with an apparent dart – will be tough to put on as a result of what can’t be crammed out is extra apparent. Carrying waistcoats or open shirts and blouses works nicely. Usually, I keep away from strapless, stretchy clothes as they have an inclination to fall down with out two breasts. When you actually love a flowery gown, a corset-style high – if it’s tight sufficient and has some boning or shaping – can disguise a mastectomy so long as the fabric sits near the chest on the high. As an alternative, I like a jumpsuit. There’s no faffing about discovering a high that goes with a pair of trousers or a skirt, and no worrying about tights. Jumpsuits are a cool various to each day or event dressing and there are some very sensible, dressier variations in velvet or sequin materials out now.

An enormous necklace turns into a speaking level as a substitute of the garments I’m carrying. I search for closer-to-the-neck fashion statements, somewhat than as soon as liked longer pendants. I gave mine away as a result of with out two breasts to maintain a pendant within the center, they only change into a nuisance. Whereas I’m not a shawl individual, these will be nice in diverting the attention from a flat chest and including a splash of color to your outfit.

I additionally concentrate on earrings and lipstick – or daring glasses and hairstyles – to attract the eye to my face, not my chest. When my hair grew again gray, some colors simply didn’t go well with my skin-tone anymore. Like Alyson, I needed to change a variety of my wardrobe and make-up. I like contrasts so [clothing-wise] I follow black, white, and navy with a pop of yellow or orange or inexperienced.


 Yow will discover Liz over on her web site HERE and instagram HERE. You’ll be able to pre-order a duplicate of her new e book HERE.



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